I Love it Rough
From the time I envisioned coming to the US in 1991 to my first startup that I am working on currently, I have become addicted to challenges. I dislike it when it comes too easy and here is why:
- The value and appreciation is directly proportionate to the effort to achieve it
- Your personal growth is directly proportional to the effort as well
- One has to think differently and be creative
- One will tend to meet people who help you selflessly
- One will develop long term relationships
- One learns a lot about themselves and people around them
- One develops a better sense of purpose
- It is a great opportunity to bond better with people who are regularly around you
- You learn to leverage existing resources - what you have
- You learn "whether you think you can or can not, you are right" [Henry Ford}
- One is encouraged to dream
- One learns that conventional wisdom is limiting
- One will never get the opportunity to fail and if you don't, you will probably never learn
- It is a humbling experience
- You learn that you will not go anywhere by blaming circumstances - it is you who has to deliver and face the consequences eventually
- You learn that attitude is probably your biggest trump card
- Finally, the adrenalin rush of achieving the 'impossible' is addictive
What do you think? Did I miss out anything?
Imagine: "The size of the fight in the dog, not the size of the dog in the fight" [Mark Twain]
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Only, now I was more determined to make the best of a job in India to make it happen AND get a scholarship - I did. It was better - I was more mature, professionally more experienced, got a scholarship, found my wife etc etc.
But then what do I know :)
Would you like me to make the same bad joke again?
I see what you mean, and I agree that in most cases "failure" just leads you down a different road than you had planned, and in my case, that has led me to where I am, and I'm happy.
I do wonder, though...I have known some people whose failures were not their fault and didn't lead them anywhere better. For me (and it sounds like for you too) the difference has been that I have support to fall back on, and the people I'm talking about did not. When my bad choices and bad luck (usually a combination) have really left me stranded, my parents are there to help...as are my friends, my education and my "bring it on" attitude.
But what gave me those things? Luck? Fate? The grace of God? I don't know. Serendipity is my preferred term, I suppose.
Absolutely. And where do you learn how to do those things and that they are necessary?