I Love it Rough

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While I certainly agree with the spirit of this, and I love a challenge as well, I don't think that you can always control whether you fail or succeed. Certainly it won't help to sit around thinking you will fail or blaming circumstance. On the other hand, sometimes you will try your best and do everything you possibly can, and you will still fail. It does happen sometimes. Sadly, there are forces we cannot bend to our wills. Personally, I prefer it that way--it kind of raises the challenge when you have to work--and possibly fail--with those unknowables.
I agree and you are real but I am of the opinion that it is never really failure - The first time I tried for the US in 95, with all my preparation of 2 years and lot of money sunk (it was expensive as an Indian), one consulate officer decided my plans were not a good idea and rejected my visa. I could do nothing. That made me ineligible to apply apply for 2 years!! - my Mom was extremely disappointed whereas I wasn't. It was the same situation with 2 perspectives.
Only, now I was more determined to make the best of a job in India to make it happen AND get a scholarship - I did. It was better - I was more mature, professionally more experienced, got a scholarship, found my wife etc etc.

But then what do I know :)
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Would you like me to make the same bad joke again?

I see what you mean, and I agree that in most cases "failure" just leads you down a different road than you had planned, and in my case, that has led me to where I am, and I'm happy.

I do wonder, though...I have known some people whose failures were not their fault and didn't lead them anywhere better. For me (and it sounds like for you too) the difference has been that I have support to fall back on, and the people I'm talking about did not. When my bad choices and bad luck (usually a combination) have really left me stranded, my parents are there to help...as are my friends, my education and my "bring it on" attitude.

But what gave me those things? Luck? Fate? The grace of God? I don't know. Serendipity is my preferred term, I suppose.

Yes - I totally agree with you. It aint happening without the right people. It is ALL about people. There again though, one first needs to be aware of it and work on building those relationships - sacrifice, time, patience, compromise etc etc :)

Absolutely. And where do you learn how to do those things and that they are necessary?

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